Men's Issues

Studies have shown that women are much more likely than men to seek therapy. However, just like women, men can benefit from having a confidential, private space to explore any issues that might be coming up for them. The term “men’s issues” can refer to any number of concerns men might face, including anger management, addiction, intimacy issues, domestic violence, mid-life crises, grief or loss – in addition to mental health issues like anxiety or depression. If you have found yourself experiencing any of these issues (or others), reach out to one of TherapyDen’s men’s issues specialists today.

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I have experience working with men or masculine-identified people with working on healthy self-expression. Our culture, to this day, continues to send the message that masculinity is defined by the avoidance or armoring against perceiving as feminine. Like any aspect of identity, expressing who you are by saying who you are not, is a dilemma. There’s many right answers to the question, and I can help you feel supported in processing it.

— Timothy Reider, Licensed Professional Counselor in ROYERSFORD, PA

In this world of changing gender roles it helps to think directly about what it means to be a man. The toxic masculinity we have been shown is no longer meeting our needs for meaning, love, or even empowerment. It can be liberating to ask, "What is sacred masculinity?" If we can have compassion and curiosity for the parts of us that took on toxic masculine attitudes, we can also learn to live in ways that honor both the sacred masculine and the feminine aspects of our being.

— Carlyle Stewart, Counselor in Asheville, NC
 

Living as a man in our society comes with unique limits and opportunities. We develop and strengthen parts of ourselves to survive struggle and meet expectations of masculinity. While these parts can be incredibly effective, they can also lead to frustration, relationship issues, and unhelpful coping strategies. Specializing in Men's Issues means creating a space to comfortably explore these issues, while becoming better at addressing feelings, meeting needs, and connecting with others.

— Blake Locher, Licensed Professional Counselor in Portland, OR

Associated with the mental health challenges that stem from emotional repression, harmful stereotyping, and other examples of "toxic masculinity."

— Alexander DeFelice, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Boston, MA
 

Most men are brought up hearing expressions such as "don't cry" and "man up". These implicit messages from family, friends, and culture cause males to create protective and sometimes maladaptive coping mechanisms around their feelings. Ironically, men are taught not to express feelings in their youth and then expected to show emotional intimacy in adult relationships. I help men explore their repressed feelings and authentic express them in a way that invites deeper connections with others.

— Kelly Edwards, Marriage & Family Therapist in Austin, TX

Men come to see me for a wide range of reasons. Sometimes my male clients are seeking support or guidance around a transition or life event and find that they're not sure who they can trust with their innermost thoughts. Sometimes it's that they find they have reached the goals they set out to reach but don't quite feel satisfied. Other times, men come to see me when a relationship with a loved one is feeling challenging. Feeling listened to without judgment can feel helpful.

— Gemma Collins, Clinical Social Worker in New York, NY
 

Men come to see me for a wide range of reasons. Sometimes my male clients are seeking support or guidance around a transition or life event and find that they're not sure who they can trust with their innermost thoughts. Sometimes it's that they find they have reached the goals they set out to reach but don't quite feel satisfied. Other times, men come to see me when a relationship with a loved one is feeling challenging. Feeling listened to without judgment can be a

— Gemma Collins, Clinical Social Worker in New York, NY

I work with all men to address sexual performance anxieties, desire discrepancies, porn and/or substance use, and communication difficulties. I also help straight-identified men understand and appreciate their attraction to trans women.

— Eric van der Voort, Sex Therapist in San Diego, CA
 

I am able to talk openly with you about whatever issues that you're having with your marriage, when it comes to sex, your anxiety revolving around sex, and things that you might be embarrassed about telling your partner. I truly have a judgement free zone and I have already seen many things in life as I am 50 years old and I am here to help you overcome whatever challenges that you're facing.

— Micheal Franklin, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in DALLAS, TX

As a young man growing in an increasingly complex world, I understand the unique stresses men go through in the 21st century. I've made it a pillar of my work to help other men navigate the world in a healthy and positive manner.

— Evan Moore, Licensed Mental Health Counselor
 

Guys, you deserve therapy, too. I have experience working with men's issues, including anxiety, depression, masculinity, identity issues, fatherhood, and learning how to better communicate your needs. Here, you'll find a space that honors your perspective and doesn't try to "fix" you, but instead helps you identify what you need and how to communicate it.

— Taylor Schwarz, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in Fort Worth, TX

I specialize in addressing the unique psychological needs of men, focusing on challenges like emotional repression, societal expectations, and masculinity. My approach creates a supportive environment that encourages men to explore and express their emotions openly, fostering greater emotional health and resilience.

— Abraham Sharkas, Licensed Professional Counselor Associate in Montclair, NJ
 

I offer a supportive space for men navigating various challenges. From identity exploration to communication skills, I help clients foster self-awareness and develop healthy coping strategies. Together, we address societal pressures and explore ways to promote emotional well-being and authentic self-expression.

— Jeff Barbour, Therapist in Nashville, TN

My passion is to help men overcome struggles that may be a byproduct of an outdated view of masculinity. I can help empower men to build emotional intelligence, communicate emotion with assertiveness and respect, overcome shame and manage anger. This starts with an exploration of family system, social support, or societal influence which may contribute to irrational beliefs about men.

— Michael Bernstein, Licensed Professional Counselor in Philadelphia, PA
 

I specialize in helping men work through issues around shame, vulnerability, sexuality, communication, competence, and finding a sense of purpose and meaning in life. I bring a long background leading men's circles, retreats, and rites of passage for both adolescent and adult males. To be a male-identified person brings with it a unique set of roles and expectations which are often internalized. I will support you to get to know yourself and make new, more satisfying choices.

— Lucius Wheeler, Licensed Professional Counselor in , OR

Drawing from my own experiences as a man, I approach men's issues with a nuanced understanding of the social and emotional challenges men face. I offer a supportive environment where men can explore and address concerns such as emotional expression, societal expectations, and personal growth. My goal is to help men navigate their unique issues with confidence and resilience, fostering a healthier and more balanced sense of self.

— Dylan Weinstock, Licensed Professional Counselor Intern in Timonium, MD
 

I love to work with men and exclusively worked with men for 9 years. I enjoy how fast men work through their issues and that they are not afraid to join in on self healing. I am proud to work with this courageous group.

— Dian Grier, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in san fransico, CA

Too masculine, not masculine enough? Too in touch with emotions, not in touch enough? For so many of us men, we don't fit into any one box. Yet, we might have been raised or currently living among people who don't get us. This can lead us to question if we are 'good enough' or 'doing it right.' Learn how to be comfortable in whatever way you choose to express who you are. Let me help you release old fears, old patterns and live authentically, now and everyday.

— Cole Huggins, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Atlanta, GA
 

Experience what it’s like to stop keeping all of your problems to yourself. Gain a new perspective on your challenges and build the skills you need to become the partner, father, family member, friend, and professional you want to be.

— Adam Sattler, Psychologist in Minneapolis, MN