Aaron Bachler (he/his)

As a society, a not-so-subtle message of "you're immoral or vulgar" has been sent to the kink/BDSM community and LGBTQIA people. This message of shaming leads people to feel they must suppress who they are and hide. I aim to help members of the kink community and anyone who would define themselves as not fitting into the societal norms of sexual activity/romantic desires to break free from the confines of that message of shame.

Codependency is often tied to the relationships that we have with addicts in our lives. Codependency is often defined as behaviors that enable behaviors we wish to see the end of but it often comes from a place of love, care and concern for others. The problem is that love, care and concern can result in giving too much to others. My goal in helping clients who struggle with codependency is to help them establish healthy boundaries so they can be supportive without overwhelming themselves.

Codependency is often tied to the relationships that we have with addicts in our lives. Codependency is often defined as behaviors that enable behaviors we wish to see the end of but it often comes from a place of love, care and concern for others. The problem is that love, care and concern can result in giving too much to others. My goal in helping clients who struggle with codependency is to help them establish healthy boundaries so they can be supportive without overwhelming themselves.

We often think relationships should be easy but the truth is they are a lot of work and if we are struggling in our relationships, we likely didn't have the best teachers of what relationships should look like in our childhoods. When working with couples I focus on improving communication, developing a stable support system and teaching productive ways to work through difficult problems so each person feels they are heard and respected.

We often think relationships should be easy but the truth is they are a lot of work and if we are struggling in our relationships, we likely didn't have the best teachers of what relationships should look like in our childhoods. When working with couples I focus on improving communication, developing a stable support system and teaching productive ways to work through difficult problems so each person feels they are heard and respected.

Codependency is often tied to the relationships that we have with addicts in our lives. Codependency is often defined as behaviors that enable behaviors we wish to see the end of but it often comes from a place of love, care and concern for others. The problem is that love, care and concern can result in giving too much to others. My goal in helping clients who struggle with codependency is to help them establish healthy boundaries so they can be supportive without overwhelming themselves.

Our challenges are uniquely our own but anxiety is a shared experience that we all have at some point in our lives. My goal is to help understand what creates anxious moments for you, how you address it, how you think about it and how it affects your life. With that info, together we will discuss new ways of managing anxiety, responding to it differently, a deeper understanding of your triggers and incorporating that knowledge into a life well lived.

Finding self esteem starts with self compassion and in my work with clients, we explore where those voices of self doubt come from and replace them with a much kinder voice.

Whether you are dating or married, relationship issues are bound to arise. The route to growth varies by person but likely includes some focus on communication, empathy, boundaries and deepening trust and together we can explore that and so much more.